When I look back at my high school years, now a long time ago, I can’t necessarily pinpoint any single fact I learned or skill I mastered. The details blur with time. What remains vivid, however, are the teachers. I remember the ones who got me: the educators who saw past report cards and schedules and recognized a young person still figuring out who they were and who they might become. Those teachers didn’t just teach subjects, they shaped my trajectory. They made school a p

A recent New York Times essay by psychologist Angela Duckworth argues something counterintuitive but deeply resonant: willpower doesn’t work nearly as well as we think. The most disciplined people, the research suggests, don’t succeed because they are better at resisting temptation in the moment. They succeed because they arrange their lives to avoid temptation altogether. While this insight feels modern, backed by psychology, neuroscience, and data, the Torah taught it thous

This past summer, my daughters came home from camp singing a song I had never heard before. This was not unusual; children often come home from camp with new melodies that stitch themselves into the soundtrack of family life.  What was different this time, however, was what they were singing. The words stopped me in my tracks. For obvious Halachic reasons of Kol Isha, I had never listened to Mimi Pearlman’s song, “Karov Hashem.” But as my daughters sang it softly around the h

A few years ago, I met with a group of teenagers who had stayed in Boca for the summer. This was a different Boca than the one we know today, with fewer programs, fewer constructive outlets, and far more empty hours. The boys had spent their summer doing things they shouldn’t have done. Their parents were concerned and wanted us to speak with them, not to punish, but to understand. So we asked them a simple question: Why? Their answer was disarming in its honesty. “Rabbi,

One of the most inspirational and impactful stories I have read is in a short, easy-to-read book called “The Fred Factor,” by Mark Sanborn. Fred is the ordinary-looking postal carrier with a small moustache who once delivered mail to Sanborn’s house in the Washington Park area of Denver. But Fred is no ordinary U.S. Postal Service worker. According to Sanborn, he is the kind of worker who exemplifies everything that is “right” with customer service and is a role model for an

Televised sports these days have a new kind of scoreboard, one that doesn’t just tell you the score, but tells you the chances of success....

When my wife Arielle and I were first married, she was working as a nurse at Mt. Sinai Hospital in New York City.  One of the things she...

Before Rabbi Shlomo Riskin was the Chief Rabbi of Efrat and before he founded the Lincoln Square Synagogue, he was a Talmud teacher at...

A few years ago, when I had the privilege of addressing a group of teenagers in our community,  I began by asking them to write down...

During one of the most difficult chapters of our lives, when our daughter Esti a”h was undergoing treatment at St. Jude Children’s...